A rare note of thanks
March 17, 1998
Sarasota Herald-Tribune
Many people contribute to causes or appeals, not for a thank-you but because something has moved them to help someone in need. The cause may be disaster relief after a hurricane or tornado strikes a community. Or it may be to help a family or an individual dealing with a special problem.
Thank-your from those affected are unexpected and rare. So, when one is received, it’s usually a surprise. When it’s from a young person, the surprise is doubled.
Megan An Harmon, 16, of Englewood has been in the news because she is rapidly losing her sight. She had two wishes for visual experiences: to see the Grand Canyon and to see JONATHAN Taylor Thomas, who stars in the television show Home Improvement.
Thanks to a generous response from the community, she realized both dreams this month. People who helped pay for the trip were happy just to make it possible.
As she traveled, Megan An personally signed thank-you notes, which were mailed from Arizona. The notes let people know that her dream had come true, and that she has been raised with good manners.
Thank-you notes shouldn’t be such a surprise. In another era they were expected, a part of etiquette. Brides don’t always remember to send them anymore, nor do other adult recipients of gifts. However, Megan An did write the notes, at a time when every hour of sight is precious.
Thank you, Megan An.
Town helps teen losing sight
The money raised will send Megan Harmon to Baltimore, where she’ll find out if she qualifies for a “bionic eye.”
By Matthew Henry
July 12, 1999
Sarasota Herald-Tribune
Sixteen-year-old Megan Harmon is lucky in some ways.
Unlike many people her age, Harmon has visited the Grand Canyon and cruised around Alaska.
She even got special permission to watch a taping of the television show “Home Improvement,” where she met teen celebrity Jonathan Taylor Thomas. And she’s felt the embrace of her home community of Englewood.
But the reason Harmon took those trips — and what sets her apart from most of her peers — is her impending blindness. Every day, Harmon’s vision shrinks a little more until the day when her world will fade to black.
On Sunday, hundreds of Englewood residents turned out for a pig roast benefit for Harmon at Sonny and Jan’s Country Store on State Road 776. Proceeds from raffle tickets and food and beverage donations will be spent on an upcoming nine-day trip to the Wilmer Eye Clinic at Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore.
Doctors will examine Harmon to determine if she’s a viable candidate for surgery, which is so risky it won’t be attempted until her vision is gone.
Harmon was born 3 1/2 months premature, before her eyes had fully developed. Her left eye is sightless and a cataract has been growing steadily on her right eye.
A series of benefits and publicity about her condition last year, when doctors expected her sight to close down at ant moment, led to vacations meant to give her a lifetime of memories.
Despite the dark projections for her future, don’t expect to hear gloom and doom from Harmon. She’s fiercely proud of the things she shares with other teens.
This is the girl who once stood at the front of her school bus and gave a short speech to her Lemon Bay High School classmates: “I’m not the blind girl. I have a name. I prefer to be called Megan.”
The Englewood teen points out proudly that she rides a bicycle, in-line skates, holds a yellow belt in tae kwon do and works at McDonald’s.
Dark future doesn’t daunt Englewood teen
Although she attends St. Augustine School for the Deaf and the Blind, her best friend is a sighted girl, Heidi Peschke.
Peschke hangs out with Harmon “because she’s a cool person.” “We can relate to each other and talk about our problems,” Peschke said. The giggling girls say they love to talk on the phone, go to the movies and hit the mall — “typical teen-ager stuff,” Harmon says.
“I can’t think of anything we can’t do,” Peschke says. When pressed, Harmon admits to being depressed about 15 percent of the time, when she gets mad and cries to the Lord, wanting to know why she and her friends at the St. Augustine school are going blind. “I’ve never been around her that 15 percent,” Peschke says. “You’re always happy,” she tells her friend.
Harmon says her vision-impaired and hearing-impaired friends in St. Augustine talk about the same things as Peschke, “especially at the dorm.”
Harmon’s mother, Tammy Tolley, said they don’t know how much longer her vision will last or if she’s a good candidate for surgery. The operation being considered would give Harmon a computer chip to replace her retina, “like a bionic eye,” Tolley said.
Her daughter has beat worse odds before, Tolley said. When she was born, doctors didn’t expect her to last through the night. At best, they thought she would be retarded.
They were wrong on both counts. Harmon earned a 3.75 gradepoint average last year, Tolley said.
Tolley was full of praise Sunday for the people who helped organize Sunday’s benefit, including Cheryl Shelton, Stacey Trent, Joe McCarthy, Randy Burch and Sonny and Jan Miller.